Dedicated to all those trolls, haters, bullies and otherwise ignorant people. I know I let you losers get to me for a little while, but I realized that I was letting your words speak louder than the words of my friends. I have friends. I have supporters. I have people who love and care about me. those are the people who keep coming back. Those are the people who would be upset if I left this place and this world. Those are the people who matter. Im not any better than anyone. In fact, in a lot of ways, Im probably worse. However, if nothing else that my mother tried to teach me got stuck in my head, these things did : "If you dont have anything nice or helpful to say, dont say anything at all" AND "Respect EVERYONE until they give you a reason not to." Please feel free to add to this list of songs and quotes if you have anything. Id be glad to hear it. All of this isnt just for trolls and haters online, but for ANYONE who is cruel, unkind, or thinks that their unfounded opinions are needed. Yes, everyone judges. EVERYONE! But its that GOOD and NOBLE part of you that keeps that judgement to yourself and DOES NOT allow you to hate.

A FEW SONGS:

Aretha Franklin - Respect (ok well this one is a stretch but the title says it all)
Jill Scott - Hate On Me
Hilary Duff - Haters
Rihanna - Dem Haters
Outkast - Roses
Maino - Hi Haters
Three Days Grace - Bully
Breaking Benjamin - Had Enough
Everclear - Haters
Taylor Swift - Mean
Fort Minor - Remember the Name
My Chemical Romance - Dead!
also by My Chemical Romance - Blood
Mary J. Blige - No More Drama
Christina Aguilera - Beautiful

A FEW SAYINGS/QUOTES:

-Its so funny how the people who know the least about you, have the most to say.
-If you don't like me remember it's mind over matter; I don't mind and you don't matter.
-I don't give any reason for anyone to hate me. They create their own little drama out of jealousy
-Behind every pretty girl lies a pack of haters.
-Love me or hate me. Either way I'm on your mind.
-So many assume, so little know.
-You laugh because Im different, I laugh because youre all the same.
-Haters are just confused admirers
-Its better to be hated for what you are, than loved for what youre not. =MANY ARTISTS AND FIGURES HAVE UTTERED THESE WORDS
-I'm not going to change the way I look or the way I feel to conform to anything. I've always been a freak. So I've been a freak all my life and I have to live with that, you know. I'm one of those people. = John Lennon
-Dont criticize what you cant understand. = Bob Dylan
-If you always do what interests you, at least one person is pleased. = Katharine Hepburn
-Live right now. Just be yourself. It doesn’t matter if it’s good enough for someone else. = Jimmy Eat World
-The only things that bugs me is critics. Its like shooting a flying saucer as it tries to land, without giving the occupants a chance to identify themselves. = Jimi Hendrix
-A critic is a legless man who teaches running. =Channing Pollock
-Pay no attention to what critics say. Remember, a statue has never been set up in honor of a critic. =Jean Sibelius
-Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that. = Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.
-Hate, it has caused a lot of problems in the world, but has not solved one yet. - Maya Angelou